Make a desicion

I've found a found who made... maybe we can say.. big.. decision. They married in earlier 20th even not 20th yet. Well, the question is, what is married? I'm sure everyone has their own answer. Buat gue, menikah pasti lebih dari pacaran. Saat menikah, mereka gak hanya sah secara hukum, tapi juga sah di depan pastor/pendeta/penghulu, atau pemimpin agama, yang berarti sah di mata Tuhan. gak hanya itu, walaupun yang menikah adalah 2 orang, tapi menyatukan 2 keluarga enath keluarga besar/kecil. banyak tanggung jawab, baik sebagai suami, atau sebagai seorang istri. Dan, menikah adalah sehidup semati. Itu sih menurut kepercayaan masing2 ya....Yah, gue sih mengikuti aturan kepercayaan gue. Kalau bsen pacaran mungkin masih bisa ganti pacar, walaupun bkn itu jalan terbaik menurut gue, masih ada cara utk mengatasi kebosanan kalau memang niat. Lah kalau bosen sama istri/suami, masa iya mau ganti2? Pernikahan adalah janji, komitmen... banyak orang yang berkeputusan menikah muda. Ada beberapa yang membuat gue kaget, karena secepat itukah? Tapi itu keputusan mereka juga. Apakah mereka siap menghadapi masalah2 keluarga? Siap untuk bertanggung jawab dengan masalah2 keluarga? Siap utk menjadi ibu/ayah? Siap mendidik, dsb? Well, itu hanya mereka yang tahu dan menjalaninya. Gue hanya memperhatikan dan akhirnya belajar dari mereka juga.

PS: Ini dua post-an gue kok kayak galau yah? haha.. mana gue barusan dapet sms dia. Katanya mau ngelakuin hal2 aneh lgi dan tdk minta gue ikut campur.. hadeeeeehhh -.-"

A perfect guy for me

okay.. woho..i'm not patient to write this one. Recently, I've just found what i want in my life.. Hm.. little bit late actually, I should already find what i want in 20th. well, this is specially for having relationship. From one of my friend's experience, and other sources, I know that I want a guy, who love me. of course, it's no need to said. But not just love me, but the important things are accept my condition, as physically, mentally, and the other parts of mine. He has to make me feel better when i'm not in a good mood. You know, a few days ago, I felt lost of.. I don't know, friend, or someone I love with. I don't know what I felt for sure. But, after i knew his mental condition,... hmm... maybe better if we just friend. I need someone who could lead me to the better person for God, myself, and other people.
Have a relationship for me, means process to know each other, and make better for each other too. We covered our partner's weakness. If I'm not in good mood, he can make me at least smile, give me good advice if i have problem and always support me for good things. he can remind me if I do something wrong. and oh ya, not overprotective please.. maybe too many words I want to say... Everybody want prefect in their life, so do I. I want a perfect one, a perfect guy. Although I know it's impossible, because no one perfect. That's why i said we covered our partner's weakness on each other

When I know "that" feeling? They usual called Love. I don't know. When I can get my prince? I never know. Like my friend said, God preparing my prince for me. There's always somebody to everyone

I'm waiting...