Ready?

Sex. If I hear this word, there's a many things appear in my head :p. Well, the true meaning about sex is sex (jenis kelamin), but usually correlated with intercourse. By the way, about intercourse, so far I learn a few things in the class or film (not BF). Actually, what intercourse mean to you? For me, it's not just about passion in the bed, with 2 persons "do something". For me, it also about our readiness, mentally, and physically. I learned it last week. Prepare, think about future too. Do not make a mistake for future. That's a meaning of intercourse for me. Ah, ya the important meaning for me is about readiness.
I watched many serial drama, included film, which is showed Western culture. You know what I mean? From what I watched, it's just showed passion, not necessarily included, and the important one, Love.
There's a one serial tv here (sinetron) showed Eastern culture. Well that's serial tv about pesantren, so they really really close about intercourse, even just talk woman with woman or man with man, is a taboo thing. So, there's a one scene, where a young married couple, who love each other, want to did that. Slowly, with pray, they did.
So, from that scene, I learn, it is not about with passion, or temporary love, then change a man/woman as we want to do that. It's about... I dunno to called that, but I think it's also about how we respect our self. Our body, our feeling, and our mind.
God doesn't forbid an intercourse. One of Catholic Church's purpose is have a child for married couples. So, for me it isn't just about sin and become a sinner, but how we ready to face our future after do that.
Life for me, is also about option with consequence. We have 2 options too, do an intercourse. Do or not is up to you guys. But I thing we have to remember the consequence.

By the way, gw ngomong panjang lebar ini untuk yang belom married yeee, yang udah mah terserah =))